Today would have been my father Franklin H. Hopkins’ 94th birthday. A reflection on the quiet ache of missing him—and the moment we realize there is no longer a generation above us.
Author: Krissy Pellegriti | Deliberate Desires
Hi, I’m Krissy Pellegriti—author, blogger, and the creator of Deliberate Desires, a place dedicated to living with intention, clarity, and courage. Through personal reflections, The Deliberate Detour travel series, and stories from everyday life, I hope to encourage others to slow down, notice the beauty around them, and design a life they truly love—deliberately. Wife to Tom, we have nine grown kids, nana to ten grands and 2 more coming soon, lifelong learner, and believer that some of life’s greatest adventures begin with one small intentional step.
A Door Worth Opening
Sometimes the best detours don’t require a passport—just an open afternoon and a willingness to wander. Join us as we discover why a sunny afternoon at Big Door Vineyards became a door well worth opening.
Summer Storms
Life has a way of surprising us with unexpected storms. But just like the most wicked summer thunderstorm, they never last forever. Sometimes the rain that soaks us is the very thing that helps us grow.
Three Deliberate Delights Worth Remembering
Before rushing into a new week, pause and reflect on three simple moments that made you smile. Sometimes the ordinary becomes extraordinary simply because we choose to notice it.
A Date Night Worth Repeating
Looking for an unforgettable date night? Join Tom and me as we discover why Cabernet Steakhouse has been an established icon in the Alpharetta area for 26 years—and why some of the best detours are closer to home than you think.
Love Doesn’t Leave
Three years after losing my mom, I reflect on the love, gratitude, and memories that never fade. A heartfelt tribute to the woman who shaped my life and continues to inspire Deliberate Desires.
Softened, Not Shattered: You Are Sea Glass
What if the hardest seasons of your life aren’t breaking you—but gently shaping you into something more beautiful? Discover the quiet reminder hidden in a simple piece of sea glass.
A Small-Town Fourth in a 1954 Ford
Downtown Woodstock, Georgia ~ America at 250 “Sometimes love of country looks less like grand speeches and more like a family in an old truck, a Main Street lined with flags, and a child tossing candy with all the joy in the world.” Happy 250th America! 🇺🇸 Some days arrive already carrying a story. Flags … Continue reading A Small-Town Fourth in a 1954 Ford
Catalina Cucina: A Pretty New Spot Still Finding Its Rhythm
Tom and I tried a beautiful new Italian restaurant in Woodstock, Georgia—an honest first visit with lovely promise, a few growing pains, and a dinner worth remembering.
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This space has been a long time in the making.Deliberate Desires began as a quiet whisper in 2017 — and is finally coming to life.I’m so glad you’re here.
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